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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 27.06.2025 00:49

How does one succeed in life?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What I need from you?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Making more friends is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

That's it for today.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why do people love to live alone in a house?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Does not procrastinate.

Procrastinates a lot.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Ask yourself:

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).